Why Being a Nice Guy Isn’t Helping You | Jason Lange Explains the Truth
Are you struggling with Nice Guy Syndrome? Always putting others first, avoiding conflict, and trying to please everyone, yet still feeling stuck in love, relationships, or your career? In this episode, I’m joined by Jason Lange, men’s embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, to explore the dark side of being the so-called “nice guy.” We dive into why being kind isn’t the problem, but rather the hidden patterns of people-pleasing, neglecting your own needs, and suppressing your true desires. If you’ve ever thought, “I’m doing everything right, so why am I still not getting the results I want in love and life?” this conversation will give you the clarity and tools you need to stop living on autopilot and start showing up with real power, presence, and connection.
Key Points
- Nice guy syndrome occurs when men sacrifice their authenticity to maintain attachment and approval from others, leading to feelings of resentment, frustration, and loneliness.
- Men with nice guy syndrome often run covert contracts, avoiding direct communication and conflict, which results in inauthentic relationships and unmet needs.
- A lack of comfort with one's own sexuality, driven by shame and unrealistic expectations, can lead to sexual performance issues such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.
About the Guest:
Jason Lange Expertise: Jason is a men's embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life's purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men's group for the growth and support opportunities they provide.??Jason is a certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, and has trained and studied with leaders such as John Wineland, Dr. Robert Glover, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, and Ken Wilber. Grab a free discovery session with Jason at evolutionary.men/apply Join Jason's Men's Group: https://evolutionary.men/
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