Why Sex Gets Better After 40 (When You Lead with Your Heart) with Tarisha Tourok
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Why Sex Gets Better After 40 (When You Lead with Your Heart) with Tarisha Tourok

S1 Nov 13, 2025 • 24 mins

They say sex changes after 40, and it’s true, but not in the way most people think. In this video, we explore why intimacy can actually become deeper, more passionate, and more fulfilling as you get older, especially when you start leading with your heart instead of performance or pressure. You’ll learn how emotional connection, self-awareness, and trust play a bigger role than ever, and how this shift can make sex feel more real, more relaxed, and more meaningful. If you’ve ever worried that desire fades with age, this conversation will show you the opposite; that when you lead with your heart, your 40s (and beyond) can be the most connected and satisfying time of your life.

Key Points

  • Connecting sexuality to the heart can significantly enhance openness and desire for sex.
  • Breathing exercises that link the sex center and heart can foster a deeper connection and improve sexual experiences.
  • Creating a tailored environment based on one's unique sexual blueprint can help cultivate a more fulfilling and heart-centered sexual relationship.

About the Guest:

Tarisha Tourok Expertise: Tarisha Tourok is a trauma-informed relationship and female sexuality therapist passionate about supporting women in reclaiming the power and beauty of their sexuality. With a couple of postgraduate degrees in counselling and psychotherapy, I've had the privilege of guiding hundreds of incredible women on their journey towards rediscovering their desires, learning how to become an invitation for love and affection, and feeling whole. The result for them? A heart-melting and fulfilling love life. She is trained in women-centred coaching, which means I truly understand the unique challenges and complexities that women face when it comes to their bodies and sexuality. I've designed a holistic approach known as the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman method. This method doesn't just enhance your sex life; it also boosts your confidence, helps you feel radiant no matter your age, shape or size, and lets you shine in your everyday life. www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com Free Gifts:??Reclaim Your Sexual Confidence free mini-course Feel Sexy, Confident and at Peace in Your Own Skin?? Learn 5 practices to heal your relationship with your body & your sexuality Silence that harsh inner voice that makes you doubt your worth? Feel sexy & attractive in your own skin Rediscover your inherent beauty and worth? Embrace positive self-talk that uplifts and empowers All it takes is watching a 15-minute video each day for 5 days, whenever it fits into your schedule. Link: https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/order/

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